~~~AS FEBUARY 2016,ENDS~~~


Hello friends, how are you and yours? In as much,as winter is one of my favorite seasons, I can honestly say,I cannot wait for spring to arrive…At times I’m sad on dreary days, and in desperate need of sunshine and warmth.Although, I refuse to complaint due to the terrible storms,tornadoes,and senseless deaths, occurring,in Kalamazoo,Mi. and Kansas…..One can easily become, depressed,despondent,as feelings of hopelessness at times bring thoughts of just* throwing in the towel….. However, in times of despair,we need to trust in our Faith,especially,when things look bleak and nothing seems to be going RIGHT!!!! Hold on,take a breath,sit,if needed,Focus*,(find your quite place) mediate,and Pray…As, peace* begin to surround you,concentrate on better days ahead,for, as long as we have faith,sound mind,and determination, we/you can make one more day,(one more day) Another,day* to get it right!! whatever, challenge you, or a love one are facing, whether,life-threating or a sudden delay in plans, please remain in a place of I am,I can, I shall…For,the bottom line is you must make the difference in (your) life..(You Control Your Own Destiny*)….Depend on Yourself…It’s alright,however, if you need Assistance,after trying to work it out alone…..Go on!! ask,your spouse, child,parent,etc, to come through for you,this Time*……Moreover,remember the old* phrase..(God bless the child who’s got his* own)….File this thought… For,IF*it is, no one can take it away*from you…… No one!!!Strive,to fulfill your goals,reach your dreams…. A World Class Education,Is So*Important Yesturday….And Today,in the 21st. century…. Education,(Is the Key) to a Future,filled with your heart desires…As well,you can negotiate, your desired Salary*as you apply for your (Dream Job).Isn’t that great?? (Only In America) # U.S.A…lol.Therefore,in the LAST Days, of the Month of Feburary.2016,I sincerely hope,I had written a word,a thought,to Inspire* you to keep God First place, Also,Education, and Service,(helping others)a must….Keep your Goals,and Dreams Alive…..Upon Completion,you will feel so proud of yourself and the person you’ve become, and (Rightfully So)!!!Lastly, I wish only Goodness, Mercy,Safety,and Peace,to you and your Family..blm1957@wordpress.com,hug your children,keep them safe… # Black History Month 2016 …..R.I.P. Cousin Sam,you will be missed….. 2/5/16…..

JULY, A TIME FOR YOU,GO ON, PAMPER YOURSELF


Hello Friends,as this Smoldering month of July leaves us,I  invite you to take a hard look at your life,your dreams,and goals…Inventory,if you will….Are you living your best life?? Are you taking out time for yourself, in this hot, humid, muggy weather,here,in the mid-west,the weather has not been as torrid,as the month of June…I would like to ask all mother’s and adult daughters,to set  goals,for yourself,as we enter into the new month of August..Oh, August, my August..Mother’s unite,for a new school year,as hard as it is to imagine/believe is just around the corner!!! Oh,School Clothes, Supplies,etc.etc….No! don’t think about school clothes,nor,supplies,today,(Let It Go)!!! (It’s all about you today)..,Take a moment,Breathe,find your (Quiet Place).. Relax,if a Spa day is unaffordable,make your own little spa scene/area,Be it, your bathroom,den,or bedroom,Aww,I’m feeling calmer already….Buy several scented candles,move a plant,preferably,a palm tree,into your space….The mood/effect is senual and calming…….lol…Moreover,before beginning, make one trip to your favorite local Wal-Mart,Macy’s,or Kmart,or Penny’s,and purchase a soft white bath robe,inexpensive,white slippers,and you are good to go…. After, the house is empty,and quiet, Inhale,exhale,lock all doors,lol.. and go for it….It’s “ALL” about you……Are you like me,loving the sweet pungent odor smell of Lavendar????it’s a heavenly scent,grab,a bottle of your favorite lotion,and of course baby oil..Yes, baby oil,is a scented sensation…However,Lavendar,is #one any day!!!!! you can apply it lightly or heavy,(making sure too protect the area,you are lying in/on….. Using,a warmer,to heat your lavender oil,in seconds, the sweet smell permeates,throughout your room, relax and enjoy,where do you keep your Boom-Box??lol..(you know you have a(Boom Box)lol..I love tranquil music,as I relax,and condition my over-worked,dry,tired,body,as I lie,quietly,The sounds of water,softly,at times rough,take me to a place of pure joy,the quietness,the peace,of being home alone,(no worries) no problems,as,I/You refuse,to receive any Negativity…….Have your favorite nail-polish,on your table,as,you have already removed any old polish on your nails and  toes,it’s, so much fun,and Sanitary to give yourself a mannie and peddie…Gotta love it……Blm 1957@wordpress.com.hug your children,keep them close…As your body,soak in the oils,,and you once again feel renewed,enjoy  the feeling,the Softness,Suppleness,and Serinity of a soft,glowing,pampered body…For, IT’S All ABOUT YOU……….. blm 1957……….Gooy-Bye July 2015……