HAPPY FATHER’S DAY JUNE 17th,2012


I would like to Wish All *Father’s A Happy Father’s Day!!!!! I sincerely trust that you are being the kind of Dad every Child Needs*and Deserve*We taught our  2 Sons on the importance of being a good Dad,loving,protecting, providing,being a strong Disciplinarian,at an early age!! teaching there Children the Importance of God, in their lives,keeping him first place,as they watch their Parents interact,Dad treating Mom with Respect,Love, Showing Affection,Laughing together,Opening and Closing the Car Door, letting Mom walk in First…. Going to Work every day, or doing Something!!!lol.LEGAL!!!!lol.  However, In Today’s Economy,it takes 2(two) Incomes,so,we/you have to teach the importance of EDUCATION*,start Saving early/putting aside a little here and there for College..You have too………

      My Husband and I practice every word I have written!!! My Husband calls me HONEY* so for years,when my boys were small,they thought my name was Honey* LOL~~~ My Grandson,will proudly,inform you that PawPaw,calls Grammie,(Honey) awwww!!! I just laugh,it’s so endearing…. Boys,have to be taught at a young age to also,Respect Girls,not to Fight them(Hit) although,these young Ladies today are a DIFFERENT BREED*,they can out curse the Boys,and just might kick there Butt…… Sad..not CUTE*.. Therefore, our Sons know how to treat a Lady/Wife Well,because they have had an excellent Role-Model,(their DAD) Praise God!! My Husband loves his Dad,he called him early this morning,His Parents live out of State,so they talk by phone,syke,text,email,etc.etc.

       Both my Daughter=in-laws,have told me what caring,considerate,thoughtful Husbands they were Blessed with,to which I say, To God be the Glory*,for the Things he has done!!!!! I’m very proud of the Men,Fathers they have become…..and I cannot forget my Only Son-in-law,who I prefer to as my 3rd.Son,for he is.. He has Wonderful,God-Fearing Parents also.who taught him how to treat a lady,and what is expected of a Husband!! he is a Good Man,We love him,and we gained another Son when Our Daughter Married him…So today as you go about Your Day* I Hope and Pray that each Father* will be strong in their conviction to raise the best children on Earth,giving and showing LOVE.Children,learn what they see,and hear,they are always watching us,and listening to how we treat one another..(please remember this)… HAPPY FATHER’S DAY!!!! DAD’S of the World,God bless you and your families………blm 1957..hug your children,keep them close……..My Dad is with the Lord,I still miss him..He was a Wonderful Father,who treated my Mom so very Special..R.I.P. Dad..  

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(KEEPING LASTING LOVE ALIVE)


As for myself,I’ve been Married for 31 Years,and no it has not all been Peaches and Cream* However,because my Husband and I took/take our Marriage Vows seriously,We made a Vow to work/talk about Everything,Openly and Honestly,regardless,if feelings,hurtful acknowledgments,and painful truths are reveled,we agreed to above all,Pray, for, We know Prayer is the Answer,in Prayer,One can find the words, thoughts,needed to sustain a Happy,Harmonious Marriage.Marriage is work,it cannot be taken lightly,it takes patients,love, respect,and a genuine love and friendship,of both parties,One person can Never* make things better alone. IT TAKES TWO!!!!! and if you truly Love, Adore,and want a life-time commitment,keep God first-place in your lives,again,Pray together,hold each other,Cry together,if you must,if your Marriage is worth saving you will do whatever it takes to make it last till Death do you part…Amen..

I always knew I wanted a handsome,intelligent,humorous guy,(a sense of humor is always a plus) lol. along with a Big Beautiful Home!!A white Poddle,maybe a Cat? huge grounds,for my Landscaping Gift,by chance.my husband and I share the love of Landscaping!!! isn’t that special??and you know what? my Hubby is fine,and funny,(he keeps me laughing) something if I wasn’t such a good sport,my feelings could be hurt!but, I know he loves me,(he shows it) he tells me he loves me every day,(and yes there has been times when I wanted to turn away)lol.but,I stood steadfast, knowing this is the man I want in my life,we have Children together,(he stayed right by my side) through my pregnancy’s, and now with the grandchildren,we are in it to Win it!!!!!!! We have different Ethitic Backgrounds…(Race)  Over the years,we have gotten dirty looks,rude comments,low* (under the breath) however,we took it in stride and know, we hardly ever notice it…….

Today,years later, more Couples are interracial,so we go on with life,loving our difference,living life to the fullest.. Life is Great,we are Blessed..I could never Thank God enough for all is has done,and all he currently doing.But, I’m going to show him my thanks,thru words of praise,humbleness,and remaining Prayerful….. So,Couples,here are a few tips I hope can/will help you and your Husband,keep your Marriage Fresh!!!   1)have realistic expectations-Frustration is the main reason why couples are unhappy,unrealistic expectations rarely get met, and then cause you anger,sadness,hurt and other negaive emotions.marriage takes work,who said when we get married all will be well!!! sorry,but no it does not work that way..Drop unrealistic expectations………2.)sweat the small stuff-if your hubby puts the dishes in the sink(driving you crazy)lol.every night rather than in the dishwasher,don’t just shrug it off!!TELL HIM,it Bothers you, if you don’t address the seemingly meaningless little things that bother you about your Spouse,   what happens is things build up overtime and become bigger underlying issues,Talk!! Talk about it.Express your feelings…and lastly,Remember the little things, The degree to which you can regularly make your spouse feel Special* is a significant factor in how happy your Marriage will be,simple comments,and gestures–coffee in bed? A single Rose to a lady/wife is so Sexy and a sign of love..we love it…it has been shown that men who said their wives regularly made them feel special and cared for were significantly happier in their Marriages…. What are you doing to make your marriage Stronger and life-long????? Do something special for your spouse tonite,the little things mean a lot………….. blm 1957,hug your children, keep them close…… Happy Wife,Happy Life!!!!!!!!!

(GOD’S GRACE)


Today is the 1st. Sunday in June,in fact,June 3rd,2012.I’m so thankful to be living in God’s GRACE*,what a Blessing!!God’s Grace substains me,his Mercy and Grace surrounds Me,my Husband,and our Children, giving us the total freedom from Doubt or Fear.I Praise you Father.(Lynda Bryan Davis) offers such divine words for Grace and Forgiveness,Therefore,I would like to share these words with you. Receiving Grace can begin with Forgiveness* for, Forgiveness is one of God’s greatest Gifts to us.And just as Healing,Mercy,and Love,are precious promises,so too is Forgiveness when one understands the impact it has on our lives,and those around us.How precious to know that we as God’s Children are Forgiven,past, present and future.How inspiring to realize that we don’t have to stand before God each day feeling guilty or condemned.How refreshing to know that God is always*there,because we know he has forgiven us through the sacrifice of his death on the Cross.Amen.He accepts us as we are,as he made us,and what he made is good*indeed.

With love,reach out and forgive Anyone*the Lord might lay on your heart,Scripture relates it in the following way: (Mark 11:25)and when ye stand praying,forgive,if you have ought against any:that our Father also which is in Heaven,may forgive you your Trepasses.If you have an unresolved issue with another person and you refuse to forgive because of the pain,and confusion*it has brought you,It will corrupt your thoughts and taint your testimony.(how sad) for,God loves us,and wants only good for his children.Be the bigger person,Forgive,for your Blessings of Grace and Mercy……..Please let these words of Inspiration and encouragement minister a word to your heart today,to reach out and Forgive anyone and everyone,for Anything and everything!!! Free Yourself,for, You have to see God for Yourself,And, in so doing/you release yourself to receive freely all the many Blessing and Favor God has for  you/me.I’m going to do this for my own Salvation trusting in the promise..of eternal life for us who believe..Will you obey????????? I trust you will….Guess what? here’s the best part.Your Slate*will be washed CLEAN* hallelujah!!! and above all,your place in heaven is reserved,(alright) AND,your HEART* will be at PEACE* Amen..what a Blessing!!!! don’t you feel better all ready? I certainly do……In Forgiving,God’s Grace will carry you thru….. May the Grace of God surround you today and forever  blm 1957..hug your children,keep them close…………….